Subtle Signs You Might Be Afraid of Success

Does it elicit feelings of fear for you that may manifest as paralyzation or even self-sabotage?

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Let's take five minutes to see this week in a new light. By Wendy Rose Gould & Amy Morin, LCSW, Editor-in-Chief Top of Mind Subtle Signs You Might Be Afraid of Success Though wanting to achieve success may seem like a default mode, it isn't always viewed as desirable. For some, the idea of finding success—or the consequences of that success—can instead elicit feelings of fear. This fear can manifest as paralyzation or even acts of self-sabotage, both of which can impact your life and relationships. The fear of success involves being afraid of achievement, often to the point that people will sabotage themselves.” — KENDRA CHERRY, MS   Why People Fear Success For those who are naturally driven, it may sound odd to "fear success." However, there are some very understandable reasons why someone may be wary about finding success, such as: Experiencing failure or rejection if you try something and it doesn't work out Not wanting to be in the spotlight if you do find success Feeling anxious about acquiring new responsibilities or promotions Worrying about leaving others behind as you climb higher rungs Experiencing guilt over outperforming your peers, partner, or family Feeling a sense of "imposter syndrome"—like you're unworthy of success Fearing comments from naysayers Worrying about experiencing other social problems as the result of success Signs You Shy Away From Success Fear of success can show up in different ways, and the signs aren't always evident. Common signs include: Avoiding goal-setting Feeling anxiety or discomfort when discussing "next steps" Perfectionism, a form of self-sabotage where you can't or won't move forward unless everything is perfect (which it rarely, if ever, is) Procrastination, which often translates to subpar work Giving up on goals before you allow yourself a chance to meet them Self-handicapping, which involves destructive behavior that minimizes your ability to find success On the Bright Side Ways to Stay Positive This Week Ways to Nurture Your Mind and Body This week, take 15 minutes to identify reasons why you might have held yourself back in the past or ways in which you're currently doing so. What fear drives this resistance? Instead of focusing on the negative, think about positive outcomes. What good can come from working toward a specific goal in your life? Best-selling author Mel Robbins uses a scientific approach to help you set and meet goals in "The 5 Second Rule," which is available as an audiobook or hardcover. It's specifically created for people who often feel overwhelmed or unsure about where to start with goal setting. Aura Health is an all-in-one app that provides resources for emotional support and well-being for all ages. Dubbed the "Spotify of mindfulness," it offers personalized coaching, therapy, mindfulness tools, and emotional support. This Week on the Verywell Mind Podcast On tomorrow's episode of The Verywell Mind Podcast, I talk with psychotherapist Lori Gottlieb. Tune in to hear her story about how she copes with chronic illness.    Follow Now: Apple Podcasts / Spotify / Google Podcasts Read These Next 9 Tips for Finding Success in Life READ NOW 12 Ways to Deal With Chronic Procrastination READ NOW How to Unlink Your Self-Worth from Your Work READ NOW

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